As a coach you can have championships, you can have the best plan, or the best knowledge of the sport. None of it matters if your athlete can’t stand you. I understand that there are different coaching personalities and styles. Some work with some athletes and not with others, but let’s look deeper than that.
I have spoken with many athletes where they didn’t like their coach but they respected them. They can call him an asshole, but they will still shake their hand and thank them.
If your focus is on the “W” and not the athlete, you may get lucky and get yourself a victory, but how much did you actually influence them? If your focus is on how to develop the athlete for success you will see amazing results. An athlete wants someone that is going to help them get to where they want to go by giving them the necessary tools to do so.
As a coach you are coaching not just the skill, but the person. The mind, body, and emotional/spirit.